40 Days of Resolution at Home

There is a lot of unresolved conflict connected to diverse generational culture and expectations.Today, we find a unique phenomenon, with five generations who are fully participatory in ...
There is a lot of unresolved conflict connected to diverse generational culture and expectations.Today, we find a unique phenomenon, with five generations who are fully participatory in ...
It’s rough out there. Wars, atrocities, mass shootings, global warming, toxic polarization, free-floating anger and anxiety. We're surrounded by a hefty amount of negativity, and it can ...
Day 26: IdentityBy: Sara Barnes Identities and Conflicts are Related.We all self-identify: Some of these identities are obvious, based on something inherent: ...
Time -- the conflict causer and conflict resolver:We all have our own time conceptions. For some, existence is measured in the context of the last seven generations or centuries. Others operate ...
We’ve all got families: birth, chosen, adoptive, step, nuclear, extended.Whatever type of family is yours, along with the joys and shared milestones, there’s likely a common factor: unresolved ...
The problem of the twenty first century is othering. The solution is belonging.These are the words of Dr. john a. powell who has dedicated his life to teaching and writing about othering, ...
Day 30: ValuesBy: Sara Barnes Conflicts are driven by values:Pick a conflict, any conflict. You don't have to look too deeply to see that the conflict is, at ...
Day 31: ArguingBy: Sara Barnes For some, competitive verbal sparring is a way of life. Others might be uncomfortable with arguing.Opinionated chatter is one ...
Language Matters: Paulo Freire, Brazilian educational theorist, famously said "language is not neutral."Linguists agree with this: all language and even individual words have intention, shade ...
Assumptions get in the way of conflict resolution."I know exactly what he is thinking." "Look at him, you can see it, just look at him"“Can't you hear that in her voice, I know she is being ...
Power in conflict resolution:Some of the content below is excerpted from Dissecting Power and How it Influences Conflict by Ellen KandellPower is the ability to influence an outcome or ...
Tone of voice can cause or calm a conflict:Try this: Say 'That's really interesting' in a normal and even-handed tone of voice. Now say it again in a bored tone. And in the way you would when ...