
Life after 60 shifts in ways we don’t always expect. Friends retire, move away, or get caught up in new commitments. It’s easy to look around and wonder, Where did everyone go? This is happening to me right now, and it got me thinking, where do I go from here?
This season of life offers a unique opportunity to diversify our friendships, including building connections with people younger than ourselves.
Why Make Friends with Younger People?
Opening our circle to younger friends brings fresh energy, new perspectives, and growth opportunities.
Younger friends can introduce us to new ideas, trends, and ways of thinking. In return, we offer them our life experience, encouragement, and mentorship.
It’s not about “staying young” – it’s about creating a richer, more colorful life by connecting across generations.
Research supports the benefits of cross-generational friendships.
A Stanford University study on “The New Map of Life” found that meaningful intergenerational relationships promote greater well-being, reduce feelings of loneliness, and help people of all ages thrive. Similarly, a report from Generations United highlights that intergenerational programs and friendships increase empathy, life satisfaction, and even cognitive function for older adults.
How to Meet Younger Friends
If you’re wondering where to start, here are a few ideas:
Join Intergenerational Spaces
Volunteer organizations, book clubs, community classes, or professional groups often bring people of all ages together.
Get Involved in Hobbies
Take a workshop, fitness class, or cooking course where you’ll naturally meet various people.
Engage Online and Offline
Neighborhood groups, hobby forums, and special-interest meetups are great places to find new connections.
Sometimes it’s as simple as striking up a conversation at your local coffee shop, gym, or community center.
Hosting Younger Friends: Activity Ideas
One of the easiest ways to deepen new friendships is to invite people to gather around a shared activity.
Here are a few ideas to host and connect naturally:
Cooking Night
Invite a few people to cook a meal together. It can be a fun exchange of recipes and traditions. A couple of weeks ago, I had a pastry chef come and teach a group of us how to make herb garlic rolls. We all took some home for dinner. It was a delight to host the group, and we are planning the next event!
Craft or DIY Workshop
Host a casual evening making something creative, like candles, art projects, or homemade gifts. I recently had my daughter and a friend over, and I taught them how to sew iPad covers. We all learned something new!
Game Night
Classic board games or trivia nights are an easy way to spark conversation and laughter across generations.
Outdoor Picnic or Hike
A low-key meet-up in nature offers space to chat, relax, and enjoy time together without pressure. You bring the pot of soup, and everyone brings a side dish!
Book Swap or Movie Discussion
Pick a book, podcast, or movie ahead of time and invite a few friends for a laid-back discussion.
The goal is to keep it simple and welcoming: no need for elaborate planning.
Tips for Building Meaningful Connections
- Be curious: Approach new people with genuine interest, not assumptions about age.
- Find common ground: Focus on shared passions rather than life stages.
- Say “yes” more often: Accept invitations, attend events, and be willing to step a little outside your comfort zone.
- Let the friendship grow naturally: True connections aren’t assignments, they’re gifts.
Your Next Step
The first step is simple but powerful: Put yourself out there. Start a conversation, join a group, say yes to something new.
When we open ourselves to new friendships, we open ourselves to new possibilities for joy, growth, and deeper belonging.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Are you open to exploring friendships with younger people? What’s worked for you? Share your experiences in the comments!