For many years, one of the ways women encountered men—beyond family, school, and daily life—was through books.
The novels most often assigned in schools treated male characters with complexity and focus. These men were not always admirable, but they were taken seriously. Their choices carried weight. Their flaws were treated as meaningful. Whether the tone was warm, critical, or somewhere in between, the stories suggested that men were worth paying attention to.
That framing may have shaped what readers expected from men—or at least what they believed was possible.
In the past two decades, that reading landscape has shifted. School curriculums have broadened to include more books by women, writers of color, and authors outside the traditional Western canon. Those changes have brought a wider range of voices into the classroom. At the same time, many of the books that once centered male characters have become less common. Fewer students today are assigned novels that ask them to follow a man’s story closely and take it seriously.
That change is reflected in the world beyond school, too. Women now drive the fiction market. They shape what gets published, what gets shared, and what becomes popular. In many of the books women are reading and recommending, male characters are no longer central. Some are written with care. Others are written off. And many are left out altogether.
This is not a complaint. It’s a shift. But it raises a question I’ve been thinking about.
If the stories that shape your reading life are often critical of masculinity, does that affect what you recognize—or trust—in men?
I’m not suggesting that we are what we read. But I do think the stories we take in over time—especially the ones that are widely shared and reinforced—can influence how we see the world. I’m wondering if that’s happened here.
I don’t have a definitive answer. But I wonder if there’s a generational difference—not in how women feel about men, but in what kinds of stories they were given. For those who grew up reading books that portrayed men with depth and seriousness, that framing may have shaped certain expectations. For women whose reading lives began after the center shifted, those expectations might look different. I don’t know what that adds up to. But I don’t think it’s nothing.
Obviously books aren’t the only influence. It’s hard to say how significant their reach is. But they do shape what we notice, and what we learn to expect. I don’t know if a steady diet of critical portrayals of masculinity changes how readers come to see men—but I think it might.
What do you think?
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