I choose peace and not talking about anything that's not about the child. Im and adult and they are an adult….they can figure it out just like I did 😂😂. ❤
This sounds like someone who has all the power in the dynamic and control of their kids. If you’re somone who is having to beg and plead for your basic rights and time with your kids, you will go back to court. And you should.
Man, my ex girlfriend, 2.5 years after our breakup. When she broke up with the new guy. She went completely haywire towards me, accusations, withholding child, flagging me in the school, bashing online, causing drama and thousands of pages of abusive text. It was crazy and honestly all to this day I don't know what the hell happened that made her target me. My only assumption is that she had no financial supply, and her ship was sinking fast. So in desperation she used the female advantage of court to get more child support. My guess any ways
Okay that's happened to me right now I'm going to court October 2024 now she hasn't been taking him to school she only has him Thursday Friday and Saturday I never took her back to court she filled out the motion and in our last court we had the G.A.L. involved I made it clear as day that I can take him to all of his doctor's appointments all of his schooling no questions about it it's getting done. she doesn't have a car she can't drive she doesn't work. what do you think will happen?
Your complaints are entirely financial? So you dump your baby daddy because he doesn’t make enough money and then you except him to start making money because you dumped him? Yeah, focus on your inner peace because that’s pretty crazy.
Yep. My ex was supposed to pay 1/2 doctor bills and 1/2 for extra curricular activities He paid zero. I just sucked it up. Not worth dealing with him. If in the event he threatened to take me back to court because my child was using the bathroom at 5:00pm and didn’t bound out to his car at exactly 5:00pm, I had something to remind him of that I could use in that court.
I wasn’t in a high conflict situation but a high apathy one. This was 30 years ago. Their dad’s new wife (old mistress) laid down the law and limited how much time he could spend with the kids. The child support he was paying was super low (of course she didn’t see it that way) and she made it very clear to me that if I ever took them back to court to modify the child support to a higher amount, she would make sure their dad never saw them again. 🙄 She also intimated that she would let the kids know that the reason they couldn’t see their dad anymore was because I was a greedy b***ch. they were young at the time — 5 and 10 yrs old. It was more important to me that the kids had a relationship with their father (limited as it was) than to have him pay his fair share. So for the next 10 years or so, I never adjusted the child support. When my oldest graduated high school. their dad told me he would only be paying for my youngest so half of what he was paying. He was paying $300 a month for 2 kids, so he lowered it to $150. In the early 2000s. I told him, since both kids still live with me, why don’t you just keep paying the $300 in support. I said that he was paying way less than he should be paying if we were to have it modified. He said no. I repeated several times that the amount he,would pay for one child would be significantly higher than $300. He didn’t listen. I said, okay! I told my kids that if I took his dad to court for child support that it would be possible that their dad wouldn’t be allowed to see them anymore. I told them I wouldn’t do it if that bothered them. They said no that’s fine. They were old enough that they didn’t feel welcome in their father’s home anyway. So I took him back to court and was awarded $675 per month for one kid. He had to pay that for 3 more years, until my youngest was 18 which was in November of the year he graduated high school. Karma’s a bitch. 🤷♀️
Completely agree. The best revenge is just to turn your back on them and move on, become independent as much as possible. The contempt charges and slap-on-the-wrist fines aren't worth the headache and excessive attorney fees. Your mental health is more important than proving they're the asshole.
They know that they are wrong as well. They just want you to be irritated by it and when the children are hurt , well, that's just collateral damage to them
So true!!! Family Court – Just slap his "pee pee" Don't do that again… Criminal Court – prison for years/decades…
I wish family court got more aligned to criminal court…. know this as i have gone through family court and kids suffered until i could step-parent adopt them and STOP the abuse…. Glad you are saying this, thank you!!! Take care and be safe!!! 😊😊😊
I choose peace and not talking about anything that's not about the child. Im and adult and they are an adult….they can figure it out just like I did 😂😂. ❤
So sorry that your inner peace is worth more than you proving yourself in court. I put my child’s well being above my inner peace.
I’m going to do it, she stole the entire summer of time with me so she could hold them in summer care at school instead.
This sounds like someone who has all the power in the dynamic and control of their kids. If you’re somone who is having to beg and plead for your basic rights and time with your kids, you will go back to court. And you should.
Man, my ex girlfriend, 2.5 years after our breakup. When she broke up with the new guy. She went completely haywire towards me, accusations, withholding child, flagging me in the school, bashing online, causing drama and thousands of pages of abusive text. It was crazy and honestly all to this day I don't know what the hell happened that made her target me. My only assumption is that she had no financial supply, and her ship was sinking fast. So in desperation she used the female advantage of court to get more child support. My guess any ways
Nice specs.
😭😭😭😭😭the accuracy
What if you have had zero inner peace from day one and it’s eight years later? 😔
Okay that's happened to me right now I'm going to court October 2024 now she hasn't been taking him to school she only has him Thursday Friday and Saturday I never took her back to court she filled out the motion and in our last court we had the G.A.L. involved I made it clear as day that I can take him to all of his doctor's appointments all of his schooling no questions about it it's getting done. she doesn't have a car she can't drive she doesn't work. what do you think will happen?
Your complaints are entirely financial? So you dump your baby daddy because he doesn’t make enough money and then you except him to start making money because you dumped him? Yeah, focus on your inner peace because that’s pretty crazy.
Must feel great to have been so perfect in the relationship.
Inner peace is one thing……but I am waiting for Karma to come around. LFG
No fuck that
Easy to say when you get to see your children
Yep. My ex was supposed to pay 1/2 doctor bills and 1/2 for extra curricular activities He paid zero. I just sucked it up. Not worth dealing with him. If in the event he threatened to take me back to court because my child was using the bathroom at 5:00pm and didn’t bound out to his car at exactly 5:00pm, I had something to remind him of that I could use in that court.
Exaclty!!
Thank you
I wasn’t in a high conflict situation but a high apathy one. This was 30 years ago. Their dad’s new wife (old mistress) laid down the law and limited how much time he could spend with the kids. The child support he was paying was super low (of course she didn’t see it that way) and she made it very clear to me that if I ever took them back to court to modify the child support to a higher amount, she would make sure their dad never saw them again. 🙄 She also intimated that she would let the kids know that the reason they couldn’t see their dad anymore was because I was a greedy b***ch. they were young at the time — 5 and 10 yrs old. It was more important to me that the kids had a relationship with their father (limited as it was) than to have him pay his fair share. So for the next 10 years or so, I never adjusted the child support. When my oldest graduated high school. their dad told me he would only be paying for my youngest so half of what he was paying. He was paying $300 a month for 2 kids, so he lowered it to $150. In the early 2000s. I told him, since both kids still live with me, why don’t you just keep paying the $300 in support. I said that he was paying way less than he should be paying if we were to have it modified. He said no. I repeated several times that the amount he,would pay for one child would be significantly higher than $300. He didn’t listen. I said, okay! I told my kids that if I took his dad to court for child support that it would be possible that their dad wouldn’t be allowed to see them anymore. I told them I wouldn’t do it if that bothered them. They said no that’s fine. They were old enough that they didn’t feel welcome in their father’s home anyway. So I took him back to court and was awarded $675 per month for one kid. He had to pay that for 3 more years, until my youngest was 18 which was in November of the year he graduated high school. Karma’s a bitch. 🤷♀️
Completely agree. The best revenge is just to turn your back on them and move on, become independent as much as possible. The contempt charges and slap-on-the-wrist fines aren't worth the headache and excessive attorney fees. Your mental health is more important than proving they're the asshole.
They know that they are wrong as well.
They just want you to be irritated by it and when the children are hurt , well, that's just collateral damage to them
🙏
Yep! Over 245 days late with CS in two years, but bc "I get it very month," what's the problem? So frustrating.
This little immature girl is so toxic. I feel so sorry for her ex husband.
“The best revenge is to be unlike the person who inflicted the injury”
So true!!!
Family Court – Just slap his "pee pee" Don't do that again…
Criminal Court – prison for years/decades…
I wish family court got more aligned to criminal court…. know this as i have gone through family court and kids suffered until i could step-parent adopt them and STOP the abuse….
Glad you are saying this, thank you!!!
Take care and be safe!!! 😊😊😊
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