Parents have 50/50..5 yearold daughter is telling mom about hands in her pants. 4 year old girl has acted out and differently for months. Find out live in girlfriend of father has little girls also. She is asked about this and verifies yes it has been an issue. Father didnt think it was anything plus didn't tell 4 year old mother about it. Mother has reported to the police. What are mothers rights to keep 4 year old out of Fathers home until a court date?
How do you document everything, when i already left our house and only this time i have learned about this things i need to learn now that i am filing case agaisnt him????? I can only write down what i remember. I dont remember exact dates anymore. I can remember patterns of his behavior. Nowthat i left, abuse like when we are still living together dont happen anymore. We dont talk anymore. Weboth avoid to communicate through text messages as well,
What about audio recording of her yelling at me that I will not see a shrink to cope with the news that my baby daughter has a very serious neurological handicap that will keep her from walking, talking and will be blind and if I do she will attack me?
What about keeping me from getting to a safe space when she bursts into rage? (Audio and text)
What about audios of her menacing me of filling false allegations of DV and admitting that she said that because she was mad at me?
I have text proofs that she changed the neurological medication of our daughter without consulting professionals, nor me. 2 extra grams of that medication could kill her. When I text her that she can't do that, she answers: "yeah shut up you moralist, F-U".
What about audio recordings of her yelling at me, saying I have no one and she has everyone on her side (which for a long time I believed and cut all ties with everyone but found out it was just to make me feel powerless and isolated).
I have 656 pages of text. 369 audio recordings. 479 pages of messenger texts.
What about denying me access to my daughter for 2 weeks and pretending I didn't come to see her to the psychological and social investigator? Lying. I have very good text proof of that, as well as witnesses that are very credible (my neighbours). Of course the evaluator believed everything she said, and nothing I did. But will see about that in Court… There is humongous errors of judgement that are not subjective but very very objective.
I have her admitting on her own; without me asking) she was searching on the web for euthanasia. for our daughter.
What about she stole stuff from me when she left and I have proof of her admitting to it (audio)?
What about she changed kindergarten without advising me and kinda faked my signature?
What about her removing my credentials from the hospital where my daughter has her neurologist (records show time of change).
Now, it's easy to think I was an a-hole, but our whole relationship history is conceiled in these texts and all I ever did was help her. I always complied with the crazy demands she had. I was always cooperative (always, absolutely no dent in that).
I have hundreds of declarations from professionals in the medical file saying I am an outstanding dad, very engaged and present to his baby daughter.
I have a psychiatric paper saying I am under depression for cause of high conflict separation, if that is of any help.
Yet, she denies me even supervised visits.
The case hasn't gone to Family Court yet. It's been dragging for 3 years. I don't see my daughter no more, because she is just a fireball of uncontrollable rage, machiavelism, explosive and impulsive rogue sadistic person and she put me in a deep deep deep depression. It's a very complicated situation, just like one you'd imagine with a violent men. How can you see your child if the other person is out of this world violent and will stop at nothing to attack you? She is morally deficient, I tell you that. She doesn't even think about the consequences of her actions.
Now, I'm absolutely anxious about all that. I can't pay for a lawyer, but she can. She does Gofund me campaigns to fund her lawyer. I am piss poor. I lost my job and went bankrupt. Was in the streets for a whole year living in a cabin without electrictity. Before all that, my life was fine and stable. Same job for 6 years, very well maintained apartment, a car, no drinking, no drugs, no gambling, just a working father. She has nothing on me. But she did succeed in destroying me in all spheres… physical, psychological, emotional and social, name it. It's a wreck.
I don't care very much about money. I just want to be a part of my daughter's life. I bent the knee for 3 years, scared of the lengths she would go for revenge, control and sadistic pleasure. I always acquiesced to her demands, I cooked her batch food, I helped her in the search of her new apartment, even wrote a letter of presentation for her. I took my daughter when she had important things to deal with, I paid the credit cards in full after she left. In all situations, I really tried my best to be agreable, and all the data shows just that, no games from my part. Nothing I did reduced her anger and her need for control and humiliation. She will always be like that. The only way to get out of that is to be believed in Court. And I hope for once, life will smile at me and my daughter.
My parents never took me to the doctors and they dressed me in clothing that covered up my wounds so no one ever really well some people knew and saw their abusive behavior towards me and the violence but those people are all dead.
I had her admitting to abusing our kids in multiple texts. Dhr had several interviews with the kids where they spoke about the abuse. 50 50 oh and dad pony up child support
My ex was so cocky he gave me a card confessing to violating my consent .. but he tried to spin it as an accident . But if you really read it the truth is there .
Parents have 50/50..5 yearold daughter is telling mom about hands in her pants. 4 year old girl has acted out and differently for months. Find out live in girlfriend of father has little girls also. She is asked about this and verifies yes it has been an issue. Father didnt think it was anything plus didn't tell 4 year old mother about it. Mother has reported to the police. What are mothers rights to keep 4 year old out of Fathers home until a court date?
How do you document everything, when i already left our house and only this time i have learned about this things i need to learn now that i am filing case agaisnt him????? I can only write down what i remember. I dont remember exact dates anymore. I can remember patterns of his behavior. Nowthat i left, abuse like when we are still living together dont happen anymore. We dont talk anymore. Weboth avoid to communicate through text messages as well,
What about audio recording of her yelling at me that I will not see a shrink to cope with the news that my baby daughter has a very serious neurological handicap that will keep her from walking, talking and will be blind and if I do she will attack me?
What about keeping me from getting to a safe space when she bursts into rage? (Audio and text)
What about audios of her menacing me of filling false allegations of DV and admitting that she said that because she was mad at me?
I have text proofs that she changed the neurological medication of our daughter without consulting professionals, nor me. 2 extra grams of that medication could kill her. When I text her that she can't do that, she answers: "yeah shut up you moralist, F-U".
What about audio recordings of her yelling at me, saying I have no one and she has everyone on her side (which for a long time I believed and cut all ties with everyone but found out it was just to make me feel powerless and isolated).
I have 656 pages of text. 369 audio recordings. 479 pages of messenger texts.
What about denying me access to my daughter for 2 weeks and pretending I didn't come to see her to the psychological and social investigator? Lying. I have very good text proof of that, as well as witnesses that are very credible (my neighbours). Of course the evaluator believed everything she said, and nothing I did. But will see about that in Court… There is humongous errors of judgement that are not subjective but very very objective.
I have her admitting on her own; without me asking) she was searching on the web for euthanasia.
for our daughter.
What about she stole stuff from me when she left and I have proof of her admitting to it (audio)?
What about she changed kindergarten without advising me and kinda faked my signature?
What about her removing my credentials from the hospital where my daughter has her neurologist (records show time of change).
Now, it's easy to think I was an a-hole, but our whole relationship history is conceiled in these texts and all I ever did was help her. I always complied with the crazy demands she had. I was always cooperative (always, absolutely no dent in that).
I have hundreds of declarations from professionals in the medical file saying I am an outstanding dad, very engaged and present to his baby daughter.
I have a psychiatric paper saying I am under depression for cause of high conflict separation, if that is of any help.
Yet, she denies me even supervised visits.
The case hasn't gone to Family Court yet. It's been dragging for 3 years. I don't see my daughter no more, because she is just a fireball of uncontrollable rage, machiavelism, explosive and impulsive rogue sadistic person and she put me in a deep deep deep depression. It's a very complicated situation, just like one you'd imagine with a violent men. How can you see your child if the other person is out of this world violent and will stop at nothing to attack you? She is morally deficient, I tell you that. She doesn't even think about the consequences of her actions.
Now, I'm absolutely anxious about all that. I can't pay for a lawyer, but she can. She does Gofund me campaigns to fund her lawyer. I am piss poor. I lost my job and went bankrupt. Was in the streets for a whole year living in a cabin without electrictity. Before all that, my life was fine and stable. Same job for 6 years, very well maintained apartment, a car, no drinking, no drugs, no gambling, just a working father. She has nothing on me. But she did succeed in destroying me in all spheres… physical, psychological, emotional and social, name it. It's a wreck.
I don't care very much about money. I just want to be a part of my daughter's life. I bent the knee for 3 years, scared of the lengths she would go for revenge, control and sadistic pleasure. I always acquiesced to her demands, I cooked her batch food, I helped her in the search of her new apartment, even wrote a letter of presentation for her. I took my daughter when she had important things to deal with, I paid the credit cards in full after she left. In all situations, I really tried my best to be agreable, and all the data shows just that, no games from my part. Nothing I did reduced her anger and her need for control and humiliation. She will always be like that. The only way to get out of that is to be believed in Court. And I hope for once, life will smile at me and my daughter.
Of course courts wont acknowledge what they cant see
My parents never took me to the doctors and they dressed me in clothing that covered up my wounds so no one ever really well some people knew and saw their abusive behavior towards me and the violence but those people are all dead.
I had her admitting to abusing our kids in multiple texts. Dhr had several interviews with the kids where they spoke about the abuse.
50 50 oh and dad pony up child support
In short: We can't. Stick to other issues.
My ex was so cocky he gave me a card confessing to violating my consent .. but he tried to spin it as an accident . But if you really read it the truth is there .
Texts, pictures, police reports and forensic interview all confirmed physical abuse. Texas judges don't care
Who are experts? Most therapists won’t testify in court…unless court appointed. I don’t trust court appointed. Would a DV advocate be an expert?
Can we retain you?
How much to retain you for your attorney service?
Only if you’re a man. Women can get a PFA order based solely off her hearsay.
Thanks for these videos. Keep it coming. All the best.
So difficult to prove, to connect everything, to make it visible, concrete, it makes you want to give up 😣
I need you to be my lawyer.