This is actually so scary to know that I knew a person like this. I’m not diagnosing him but on the night he put his hands on me and I literally ran away barefoot to the neighbors and they called the cops, he told them I threw a mirror at him and it’s what caused the cut he had on his finger. Best part of it all is the cut was from him punching my stereo and hurting himself. I of course told them he didnt hit me to try not getting him in trouble and boom. Now I have dv charges and during the time of waiting for court he’s been vindictive over the fact that I’m following the no contact order and bc I don’t want to get back with him. No part of his brain says of course she’d be mad at me, I lied on her
I’m writing up scenario questions for my attorney to help my narc ex to be show her true colors. My attorney doesn’t know her so she doesn’t know the proper triggers. If she does these, that narc will not be able to think clearly. It will all be about her.
Overstating your own achievements and understating the severity of your mistakes is a great way to lose all face and credibility in any courtroom. Ultimately making sure you have documentation is the best way to fight something like this. Also if you are not in a courtroom and you're faced with a narcissistic partner that loves gaslighting you the solution to fight that is just to write everything down. Your Journal is your best friend
Recovering from a relationship with a narcissistic pastor and learning to fall in love again is possible, and Pastor Frances wrote a book on this topic called Falling In Love After being a Victim of Narcissistic Pastor. Key steps include self-love, recognizing you are worthy of love, and moving forward with an attitude of gratitude instead of bitterness, according to the book's overview
I just submitted a 50 pages of accurate record keeping for a Protection Order issued against 2 narcissists who runs a shelter. The matter is also reported to Human Rights Committee … THIS INFJ is taking them out by the ankles… They not just narcissists they both Dark Triads … Tx for all your advise Antz!
First day court adverse attorney let the judge go on for 10 minutes about how I couldn’t get a $480,000 loan meanwhile there was an offer for me to buy her out for $100,000 and he was sitting there laughing at me as the judge was mocking me.
Not one word was said about that I filed for divorce because of her making $200,000 disappear and she removed documents from the subpoena records and she forged other records Venmo records that was not talked about once just my inability to get a mortgage
Can you advise for Ca peeps with questions? Surving 7 yrs, alienated from not just one, or two, or three… But five of my eight children. The story keeps unfolding. It’s been seven years alienated from my younger two kids. I was told by two Sacramento divorce attorneys that I had enough for a legal malpractice lawsuit… There is so much to my story I am not joking when I say it could be written and then written for the big screen for a lifetime movie channel .
THANK YOU SIR ! MY EVIL WICKED HALF SISTER STOLE MY INHERITANCE FROM ME IN SECRET 40 YEARS AGO ! SHE HAS LIED TO ME TIME AND TIME AGAIN ! SHE JUSTIFIES STEALING MY INHERITANCE AND DENIES ANY AND ALL WRONG DOING !
I believe I've been through enough chaos through my ex to last me a lifetime. He is sooo narcissist!!!
This is actually so scary to know that I knew a person like this. I’m not diagnosing him but on the night he put his hands on me and I literally ran away barefoot to the neighbors and they called the cops, he told them I threw a mirror at him and it’s what caused the cut he had on his finger. Best part of it all is the cut was from him punching my stereo and hurting himself. I of course told them he didnt hit me to try not getting him in trouble and boom. Now I have dv charges and during the time of waiting for court he’s been vindictive over the fact that I’m following the no contact order and bc I don’t want to get back with him. No part of his brain says of course she’d be mad at me, I lied on her
So the same tactics that I've dealt with for 12 years?
I bet his chaos can't wait to see how organized my exhibit folder is.
"The inability to accept accountability" is right on 👏🏽
Dealt with that yesterday
I’m writing up scenario questions for my attorney to help my narc ex to be show her true colors. My attorney doesn’t know her so she doesn’t know the proper triggers. If she does these, that narc will not be able to think clearly. It will all be about her.
What about the truth?
Overstating your own achievements and understating the severity of your mistakes is a great way to lose all face and credibility in any courtroom. Ultimately making sure you have documentation is the best way to fight something like this. Also if you are not in a courtroom and you're faced with a narcissistic partner that loves gaslighting you the solution to fight that is just to write everything down. Your Journal is your best friend
You still have to share kids with abusers. We are all f up until this changes. Fact
Recovering from a relationship with a narcissistic pastor and learning to fall in love again is possible, and Pastor Frances wrote a book on this topic called Falling In Love After being a Victim of Narcissistic Pastor. Key steps include self-love, recognizing you are worthy of love, and moving forward with an attitude of gratitude instead of bitterness, according to the book's overview
Stay away from corrupt courts on the take they the criminals 😂
Going through this now. CAFCASS in the UK believed them…. Without evidence….
I just submitted a 50 pages of accurate record keeping for a Protection Order issued against 2 narcissists who runs a shelter. The matter is also reported to Human Rights Committee … THIS INFJ is taking them out by the ankles… They not just narcissists they both Dark Triads … Tx for all your advise Antz!
Agree from my direct experience
Because they love chaos that’s what they are made of
I won $7,000 later
Can I get some help from you? My wife is sick a total narcissist refuses to go for help.
I play the mother and the father alone taking care of them all alone.
She's abusive and hurt my 14 year old.
I would like the opinion of a judge
First day court adverse attorney let the judge go on for 10 minutes about how I couldn’t get a $480,000 loan meanwhile there was an offer for me to buy her out for $100,000 and he was sitting there laughing at me as the judge was mocking me.
Not one word was said about that I filed for divorce because of her making $200,000 disappear and she removed documents from the subpoena records and she forged other records Venmo records that was not talked about once just my inability to get a mortgage
Yup!
Soooooo what to do about it?
Lawfare
Can you advise for Ca peeps with questions? Surving 7 yrs, alienated from not just one, or two, or three… But five of my eight children.
The story keeps unfolding. It’s been seven years alienated from my younger two kids.
I was told by two Sacramento divorce attorneys that I had enough for a legal malpractice lawsuit…
There is so much to my story I am not joking when I say it could be written and then written for the big screen for a lifetime movie channel .
SURE WOULD HAVE BEEN NICE IF THIS VIDEO WOULD HAVE BEEN MADE WITHOUT THE ANNOYING BACKGROUND MUSIC !
THANK YOU SIR ! MY EVIL WICKED HALF SISTER STOLE MY INHERITANCE FROM ME IN SECRET 40 YEARS AGO ! SHE HAS LIED TO ME TIME AND TIME AGAIN ! SHE JUSTIFIES STEALING MY INHERITANCE AND DENIES ANY AND ALL WRONG DOING !
Sounds like my relationship.
How do we get the to show who they really are. What are the best tactics- mine includes financial control so I’m not able to obtain counsel
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Will the judge pick up on this?
But does that work for them? I wish they trained judged on these things