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The World Cup is in Boston, and I live in the middle of the city, so I spent two weeks surrounded by Scottish people. Boston has a literal law against happy hour and a nightlife notorious for being lame. So it made sense that the Scots, who go to bars the way we go to Starbucks, drank all the beer in the city. There were beer delivery trucks lining the streets to keep up.<\/p>\n
The Scotts so clearly love their country and their team and each other, and they were having the time of their lives. I watched them wave their flag and wear their flag. And every day they wore kilts that encoded their Scottish family lineage \u2014 except for the drinking kilts, which are the ones it\u2019s okay to spill on.<\/p>\n
I was in my own city, enjoying their bagpipes, and drinking songs, and endless energy for fun.<\/p>\n<\/picture><\/figure>\n
But I felt like an outsider watching people who knew exactly where they were from, and I don\u2019t feel that myself, even in my own city.<\/p>\n
In the US you\u2019re expected to say where your family is from. It\u2019s a national pastime \u2014 everyone is from somewhere else and proud to name it. I remember when my kids first ran into this. I told them we\u2019re Jewish, that after the Spanish Inquisition my family went to Eastern Europe and their dad\u2019s family went to South America. \u201cBut what country?\u201d they kept asking. \u201cYou have to say a country!\u201d<\/p>\n
There isn\u2019t one. I can trace my DNA almost entirely to a small area where Poland and Latvia and Ukraine meet, and my family moved from shtetl to shtetl across it for generations. But those are all places that hated Jews. You can\u2019t say you\u2019re from a place that spent centuries trying to be rid of you.<\/p>\n
And I\u2019ll never feel from the US either. Every Jewish person I know has a passport and knows, somewhere in the back of their mind, that the people who didn\u2019t get out of Germany in time were the ones who assumed they were safe. Every Jewish person I know is also exhausted and stressed by what Netanyahu is doing in Israel, which means the one place that was supposed to be the answer to all of this is its own source of dread. It is hard to feel part of something when belonging in one direction makes you precarious in every other.<\/p>\n
So I watched the Scots and understood, with more force than I expected, that I could never be that, but also that I don\u2019t actually want to be. The Scottish joy is the joy of the class clown: this will be fine, everyone will laugh, nothing bad happens to me. You can only move through the world that way if the world has agreed in advance to find you charming. If those same men had been Black, drunk in the street at 10:30 in the morning, they would have been arrested.<\/p>\n
Their ease is not available to everyone, and I am not built for it. Jews can barely manage a party on Purim, when getting drunk is the instruction. It\u2019s not our style. We are restrained where the Scots are gregarious, careful where they are careless. But I think it\u2019s okay. What I was actually feeling amidst the fun, was how strongly I belong to something after all.<\/p>\n
Not a country. A diaspora. I belong to a people defined precisely by not being from anywhere \u2014 held together not by a flag or a hillside but by the shared knowledge of having been moved along, over and over, and having carried the thing with us anyway. I feel it every time I can tell someone is Jewish: a small click of recognition, a guess at the family behind them, a culture I already know the shape of.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t know how much I felt this until I stood next to people who are not from the US \u2014 where everyone is displaced \u2013 but from Scotland where their tie to their place is everything.<\/p>\n
Belonging means saying who you\u2019re with and who you\u2019re not. The Scots draw that line around a country. I draw it around a people scattered across all of them. I loved watching the Scots but I would not trade. One of the best things I did with two decades of raising my kids was try to give them this \u2014 not a country to be from, but a people to be of, so that wherever they end up standing, a few feet from someone else\u2019s flag, they\u2019ll know exactly who they are.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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