Yup not he want me take them nope no right nothing he just try drop them 📴📴📴📴 nope try it just yesterday nope keep them lock my door he's attacking me has in past 16contusions 10yrs ago left now love me Solo dolo keep them back stabbing me then try get help out me nope keep em 🎉🎉🎉😅😅😅😂😂❤❤😊😊😊😅😅
My strategy is this, if he isn't doing anything illegal and punishable by law, not to even bring it to court. They don"t care about anything else. Right now my abusive ex is driving again on a suspended license and he's a habitual traffic offender. I am taking him back to court for that and that only.
I’ll give you the best advice that we ever gave you guys and I’ll be honest with if you take it or not but it’s just reality. Is your ex-wife using your kid a celebrity? I’ll give you the best advice in child support in putting into course systems into a whole roller coaster you guys wanna know the simple way out of here what the fuck out of this country go to another country start a new life change your name And never come back to this country so you don’t get arrest arrest arrested will start a new life with the new identity a new wife and not far away from me. Where are you supposed to be God bless you, man. Don’t let them never reach you. That’s their problem not yours.
So when the applicant made an false allegation the court didn’t see it that way 🤔 right, they say you have the right to contest and if you don’t then they can see you as guilty.
Sounds like the court don’t want you to bring evidence as this will not make them money by keeping you in the ongoing long process of their proceedings as they will then have to act on the evidence the person lied on.
Which also sounds like it fucks up their business so they have to use all these lame excuses and powers to shut you up. What a corrupt system pretending to be good.
I wish I watched this before putting all my eggs into that basket and the court removing my kids, zero contact in almost two months and allowed to move across the USA which I’ll never ever be able to afford to see my six boys
Fuck the courts, there should be no such thing as child custody battles. The judge should get one, six months and the other parent six months and so far is this blaming this parent and blaming that parent this argument is just a file because there are people out there who use children as pawns I’m a victim of this and it makes no fucking sense and it never will. This world is money hungry I gave up on my kids because the judge took her side. That’s the type of world we live in.
Wow, what are you doing? When the child is being told by the whole other family how horrible their father is which is a great father and there’s nothing you can do. She’s already established a protection order with lies and the court believes them because you have no attorney they’re not ready for it and your attorney is not really helping youbecause he says he’s not qualified in that area so now you gotta go get another area of another attorney in spiraling because the child is now feeling like their dad is a piece of crap which never was hearing with the mother and the other family say.😢
My ex called cps on me, he called the cops on me, he also called the damn cdc on me. On day he said i did all this so you come crawling back to me. I had no reaction to his mess, it didnt faze me not one bit. He would call screaming to the top of his lungs where you could. Not understand the mane at all. One day our sons lawyer came over to spend some time with him. She took him for ice cream and came back, she asked questions not about our son but my boyfriend at the time damnit. Tf?! So i denied his whereabouts. She gave me an court appt and guess what on that day baby daddy dropped all charges bc he assumed i had the slightest ideal where my boyfriend was." 😂 i want to add when Dealbow call Cps on me it was in the summer so our son was with him for about almost 2 wks. He stated i was a drunk i smoked cigarettes and cracked Coke with women i love to touch and my new boyfriend all summer. And all our son eats is cold hot dogs while walking just in a over sized t shirt without a diaper on. So he saying im gay and get high with women and my boyfriend while neglecting our son, the whole summer. I told her the summer just started and our son wears underwear, he is trained!! Damnit!! And our son hasnt even been here but theres so much to this story, im going to right a book.
Mine is threatening to take full custody if I leave him… Even tho I said he could see the kids as much as he wants. He thinks because he made me a SAHM (yet still working and do bring in SOME income, though admittedly not much) and I don't have much income or a vehicle that he would win and man he gets me every freaking time.. but I am at my wits end with being a married single mom. Id have it easier if we separated even if he never saw them because then I'd be able to let go of the expectation and the resentment… But those threats def work
This is bullshit. If there's a pattern of communication that can be documented as well as reportable actions you can make a solid case. And yes, it is about the child because you're entield to custody and bilateral decision making, not unilateral by her.
What are your guys thoughts on virtual versus in-person mediation? I've read on Google before to not let them convince you to do virtual mediation that you should do in-person mediation. Well now I'm trying to set up mediation and her lawyer and the mediation company are telling me it's much quicker and easier and better for everyone just to do virtual mediation. Well I'm trying to get a solid answer on should I fight them on that and push for in-person mediation? They're already telling me that my ex would be in a different room. So what does it matter? What they don't understand is I'm not trying to be in the same room with her. I'm just trying to make her get up and put in the effort to actually show up to the mediation office. This will be my first time ever in mediation. I have no idea what to expect. She has a lawyer and I do not. She has my kids and is making false accusations of abuse. I'm just trying to not get screwed in mediation and that's where I found that information about pushing for him person
What if you are trying to prove it for the well being of the child? What if you are trying to prove it because the ex want to separate the child from the other parent?
Both of my kids went on a vacation with their father’s family—right before I was supposed to take them to see mine. My daughter was being pressured to stay, told things that made her feel awful. She threatened to leave on her own in the middle of rural Maine if they didn’t call me. That’s when I was called. I was blamed. My son was kept. We were blocked without his knowledge. He was 13. He went from yelling and trying to come home to telling police he was “fine.” That was called civil. It was actually a misdemeanor. He just turned 14. He won’t speak to me or his sister. I don’t know if he ever will. The GAL supported his decision to keep my son. I suspected it then—and my ex confirmed it when he filed an ex parte and said so directly.
I’ve just started talking about all of this—on camera—because holding it in is breaking me. If you’ve been through anything like this, or if you just want to understand… I’m over at Of Glitter and Grit. It’s therapy. Kind of.
both should be charged with child abuse .
I’m a woman but I’ve seen child support ruin so many men’s lives and I don’t think it’s fair. the system is not in favor of the men.
.Ill just call the GAMBINOS they'll give her an offer she couldn't refuse 😊.
So basically just take it up the ass and dont try. Great advice sage
Haven't seen my son in 4 years now. He'll be 8 soon.
Okay thanks for telling me that
Even if you can win … don't
What if you have provided journal entries for two years and prior court proceedings for contempt and have proved the behavioral patterns of the mother
Yep
Yup not he want me take them nope no right nothing he just try drop them 📴📴📴📴 nope try it just yesterday nope keep them lock my door he's attacking me has in past 16contusions 10yrs ago left now love me Solo dolo keep them back stabbing me then try get help out me nope keep em 🎉🎉🎉😅😅😅😂😂❤❤😊😊😊😅😅
My strategy is this, if he isn't doing anything illegal and punishable by law, not to even bring it to court. They don"t care about anything else. Right now my abusive ex is driving again on a suspended license and he's a habitual traffic offender. I am taking him back to court for that and that only.
You just need to be more factual of what the other person had done
How do es saying we are making it about them and not the children used at court
I’ll give you the best advice that we ever gave you guys and I’ll be honest with if you take it or not but it’s just reality. Is your ex-wife using your kid a celebrity? I’ll give you the best advice in child support in putting into course systems into a whole roller coaster you guys wanna know the simple way out of here what the fuck out of this country go to another country start a new life change your name And never come back to this country so you don’t get arrest arrest arrested will start a new life with the new identity a new wife and not far away from me. Where are you supposed to be God bless you, man. Don’t let them never reach you. That’s their problem not yours.
YES
My advice is illegal unfortunately
So when the applicant made an false allegation the court didn’t see it that way 🤔 right, they say you have the right to contest and if you don’t then they can see you as guilty.
Sounds like the court don’t want you to bring evidence as this will not make them money by keeping you in the ongoing long process of their proceedings as they will then have to act on the evidence the person lied on.
Which also sounds like it fucks up their business so they have to use all these lame excuses and powers to shut you up. What a corrupt system pretending to be good.
I wish I watched this before putting all my eggs into that basket and the court removing my kids, zero contact in almost two months and allowed to move across the USA which I’ll never ever be able to afford to see my six boys
Help me out this is too much
Then what to do if he doesn’t bring my boy back to me after the vacation?
Fuck the courts, there should be no such thing as child custody battles. The judge should get one, six months and the other parent six months and so far is this blaming this parent and blaming that parent this argument is just a file because there are people out there who use children as pawns I’m a victim of this and it makes no fucking sense and it never will. This world is money hungry I gave up on my kids because the judge took her side. That’s the type of world we live in.
Wow, what are you doing? When the child is being told by the whole other family how horrible their father is which is a great father and there’s nothing you can do. She’s already established a protection order with lies and the court believes them because you have no attorney they’re not ready for it and your attorney is not really helping youbecause he says he’s not qualified in that area so now you gotta go get another area of another attorney in spiraling because the child is now feeling like their dad is a piece of crap which never was hearing with the mother and the other family say.😢
My ex called cps on me, he called the cops on me, he also called the damn cdc on me. On day he said i did all this so you come crawling back to me. I had no reaction to his mess, it didnt faze me not one bit. He would call screaming to the top of his lungs where you could. Not understand the mane at all. One day our sons lawyer came over to spend some time with him. She took him for ice cream and came back, she asked questions not about our son but my boyfriend at the time damnit. Tf?! So i denied his whereabouts. She gave me an court appt and guess what on that day baby daddy dropped all charges bc he assumed i had the slightest ideal where my boyfriend was." 😂 i want to add when Dealbow call Cps on me it was in the summer so our son was with him for about almost 2 wks. He stated i was a drunk i smoked cigarettes and cracked Coke with women i love to touch and my new boyfriend all summer. And all our son eats is cold hot dogs while walking just in a over sized t shirt without a diaper on. So he saying im gay and get high with women and my boyfriend while neglecting our son, the whole summer. I told her the summer just started and our son wears underwear, he is trained!! Damnit!! And our son hasnt even been here but theres so much to this story, im going to right a book.
Mine is threatening to take full custody if I leave him… Even tho I said he could see the kids as much as he wants. He thinks because he made me a SAHM (yet still working and do bring in SOME income, though admittedly not much) and I don't have much income or a vehicle that he would win and man he gets me every freaking time.. but I am at my wits end with being a married single mom. Id have it easier if we separated even if he never saw them because then I'd be able to let go of the expectation and the resentment… But those threats def work
This is bullshit. If there's a pattern of communication that can be documented as well as reportable actions you can make a solid case. And yes, it is about the child because you're entield to custody and bilateral decision making, not unilateral by her.
What are your guys thoughts on virtual versus in-person mediation? I've read on Google before to not let them convince you to do virtual mediation that you should do in-person mediation. Well now I'm trying to set up mediation and her lawyer and the mediation company are telling me it's much quicker and easier and better for everyone just to do virtual mediation. Well I'm trying to get a solid answer on should I fight them on that and push for in-person mediation? They're already telling me that my ex would be in a different room. So what does it matter? What they don't understand is I'm not trying to be in the same room with her. I'm just trying to make her get up and put in the effort to actually show up to the mediation office. This will be my first time ever in mediation. I have no idea what to expect. She has a lawyer and I do not. She has my kids and is making false accusations of abuse. I'm just trying to not get screwed in mediation and that's where I found that information about pushing for him person
What if you are trying to prove it for the well being of the child? What if you are trying to prove it because the ex want to separate the child from the other parent?
Ty
Both of my kids went on a vacation with their father’s family—right before I was supposed to take them to see mine.
My daughter was being pressured to stay, told things that made her feel awful.
She threatened to leave on her own in the middle of rural Maine if they didn’t call me.
That’s when I was called.
I was blamed. My son was kept. We were blocked without his knowledge.
He was 13. He went from yelling and trying to come home to telling police he was “fine.”
That was called civil. It was actually a misdemeanor.
He just turned 14. He won’t speak to me or his sister.
I don’t know if he ever will.
The GAL supported his decision to keep my son. I suspected it then—and my ex confirmed it when he filed an ex parte and said so directly.
I’ve just started talking about all of this—on camera—because holding it in is breaking me.
If you’ve been through anything like this, or if you just want to understand… I’m over at Of Glitter and Grit.
It’s therapy. Kind of.
please take the music out brother or turn it down super distracting i trust your knowledge and adivce just wanna get the most out of it !
Easier said than done, when the court as you for detailed allegations to make agaist her
Yes he is!!!!!!!!!! 😢
Yesssss…..
Yes and the court loves making all that money.
Ok. If it’s not about “them” who is it about?
My ex-wife told all my family 12yrs ago "If you associate with him than you cannot see my son". So my entire family tree ghosted me.
Soooo, basically stay focused on the children!
Might as well
Sooo basically give up?